I am a real estate agent, and sometimes my advice is: do not sell. If you have been going back and forth about whether to stay in your home or move, you deserve a straight answer, not a sales pitch. Here is how I think about it.
Signs that staying may be the right call
If the house still works for the way you live today, there is no rush to change anything. A few things I look at:
- A bedroom on the main floor, so daily life does not depend on the stairs.
- Upkeep you can handle, whether that is the yard, the snow or the repairs, on your own or with a little help.
- People close by, such as family, friends or neighbors you can count on.
If most of that sounds like your home, staying put may be the best decision, and I will tell you so.
Signs it may be worth looking at what else is out there
Some homes stop fitting even when you love them. It may be time to at least explore your options if:
- The stairs are getting harder.
- The repairs keep coming.
- The house feels too big and too quiet.
Looking does not mean you have decided to move. It means you are gathering information while there is no pressure, which is a much easier place to make a decision from.
Staying with support is an option too
Moving and staying are not the only two choices. Many families consider staying put with support as one of the options, along with downsizing to a single-level home or condo, or independent or senior living. A care manager, elder-law attorney or planner can help weigh the costs of each, and I can explain how each choice affects the house.
Keep the decision yours
Whatever you choose, it should be your decision, made at your pace. If a parent is the one weighing it, my family transitions guide covers how to start the conversation and include everyone early, so no one is surprised.
If you would like an honest second opinion, I am happy to talk it through. A conversation does not commit you to selling anything. My downsizing guide is also a good place to read more, and you can get in touch whenever you are ready.
General information, not legal, tax or financial advice. Please consult a qualified professional; I’m happy to refer you.